WHAT is the biggest mistake a woman could make? Apparently a Wise Auntie has the answer to such an ominous question, as can be seen in a viral video which received over 1000 reposts on X.
According to Wise Auntie, the biggest mistake was choosing the wrong husband. And the result? She said the woman is likely to suffer for the rest of her life.
We suppose this is one video any lady would not want to miss! In the video, Wise Aunty went on to state that a good man was a man who prayed. Among the many things she said, it was also vital to observe his relationship with other people.
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But some netizens were sceptical. “Soulmate, meeting, sustenance, time of death, fate. Aren’t these already predetermined?” said @ZohaIrwan.
Netizen @han_asoka pointed out that the grandmothers who were married at the age of 12 years old should have been interviewed instead.
“But isn’t women always right and never wrong? Why are they bringing up their mistake of choosing a man?” pointed out a hard hitting @naufalizzuddin5.
But instead of the Wise Aunty, let’s find some answers from the experts. According to the website The Khalifah Diaries, a genuinely honest man won’t shy away from showing the woman who he truly is, flaws and all.
If he respects and values the woman as a partner, he will be open about his past and transparent about his life.
In contrast, when someone hides parts of themselves or avoids certain conversations, it might be a sign that they are not being fully authentic. Take some notes, people.
Also, people with opposing personality types often struggle to connect. For instance, a person who thrives on cleanliness and structure may find it difficult to live with someone who’s messy or thrives in chaos.
Similarly, someone who is highly driven might clash with a partner who prefers to take life as it comes.
“People say that opposites attract, but honestly if two people are too different from each other, they will have a hard time compromising and before they know it, resentment starts to build. That’s when major marriage problems start to rise,” said the website.
In the beginning stages of a relationship, it is easy to overlook certain red flags, believing the other person complements your weaknesses.
But when the initial excitement wears off and everyday life sets in, people will want someone who shares their rhythm, someone who values what they value and works with them as a team. —July 2, 2025
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