RECENTLY, a netizen by the X social media handle of @Jo_Rahim made some waves on the internet for starting an interesting topic.
She wanted to know how lesbians who have been cohabitating for many years lived.
“How do you guys manage the monetary affairs? You share when you purchase items? Who pays for the house? Who pays for the cat food? What about the foster child?” she wondered.
The post drew the attention of many, with over 543 reposts and 48 comments. Safe to say, some of the feedback was downright hilarious.
Tertanya-tanya.
Lesbian yang duduk sekali bertahun ni, macamne korang urus kewangan korang bersama? Kongsi beli barang? Rumah siapa bayar? Makanan kucing siapa tanggung? Kalau ada anak angkat camne pulak?— Jo Rahim 🇲🇾 🪐 (@Jo_Rahim) May 6, 2025
A magnanimous @payid said her lesbian partner gets to keep her money or spend it on what she wants.
“I pay for all the needs, such as food, transport, personal care, make up and others. Groceries I stock up too,” she said, adding that she also paid for the house.
But here comes a pertinent question from @SpicyNugget69, “Who becomes the wife and who becomes the husband? When on your period, do you take turns or have your period together? If someone is in a bad mood, who will calm the other down?”
Towards this mind boggling question, one netizen shared that overseas, the lady who plays the husband will inject male hormones into their body so their period will stop.
Also, netizen @aiiinnnnnn1 countered that it was easier to handle each other’s period rather than live with a man in the house.
On the other hand, @RougeLilly shared that the both of them are providers in their own capability, whether it be emotional support and money.
Apparently there was no traditional gender role in her household, that most importantly, they communicate with each other.
“In my friend’s case, they had 13 cars. They do it half, half so it is a win-win situation if anything happens,” said @LilFranKimie.
Another netizen shared that his friend married and divorced recently, and his wife had a relationship with a Chinese woman.
“Without any shame they would ride a motor and hug each other. But strangely, she would ask for money from her X husband,” he said. Too much information? We think so.
Amid all the interesting advice, perhaps netizen @biskutkepala found himself scratching his head as he said, “why is LGBT so casually being normalised?” —May 6, 2025
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