MALAYSIANS of all backgrounds are used to making adjustments to their daily routines to accommodate their Muslim brethren during the entire holy Ramadan month
This includes allowing Muslim colleagues to leave work early and not clog the roads before the break of fasting times. Non-Muslims choosing to observe fasting in solidarity with Muslims is also now a common occurrence.
But when one is sharing spaces such as in the office, what is the right etiquette especially when it comes to makan (eating) times?
This was the poser shared on Malaysian Education Info (And Home Schooling too) Facebook page. The administrator asked:
He also highlighted a netizen’s comment to which the discussion centred around.
Many Muslim netizens were keen to highlight that it was absolutely not an issue for others to eat or drink in front of them during Ramadan.
Some went further to explain this in greater detail. A netizen went to great length (by citing Quranic verses) to highlight that the act of fasting was a source of strength – surely, Muslims can overcome the sight of others eating or drinking in front of them.
Many netizens on the forum seem to have zero issues with this though some did say to be more mindful in front of young children who may be having a tough time keeping their hunger and thirst in check.
One netizen commented that he did not understand why some got upset over others eating in front of them, highlighting that it is for those observing Ramadan to resist temptation.
While the vast majority of Muslim netizens indicated that there really is no problem, others pointed to what is perceived to be the root of the problem.
Some lamented that this breed of Muslims have become overly cocooned till they have no qualms demanding that everything be tailored to suit their wants and needs.
One netizen raised the concern about schools closing their canteens during fasting month but was quickly told that the Education Ministry has stated that school canteen operators must remain open.
The above enquiry is a genuine concern among many parents who recall a past incident where an overzealous teacher ordered non-Muslim pupils to eat in the toilet. But the government directive should ensure such incidences are not repeated.
Judging from the many comments on the topic, two things are crystal clear:
Firstly, most Muslims (those who commented on the forum anyway) are not fussed about this at all. In fact, many have said non-Muslims should feel free to continue with their daily routines.
Secondly, most non-Muslims are emphatic towards their Muslim brethren during this time of year.
This attitude of mutual understanding and ‘give-and-take’ is what defines us as Malaysians and long may it continue.
FocusM wishes all Muslim readers Selamat Berpuasa. – March 14, 2024
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